Sari - 16 years after: "I don't think there were fireworks when we first met, but it was very easy to be together and it kept getting better."
Sam - 13 years after: "We'd both been in a long-term monogamous relationship and I think we find that situation comfortable."
Sari: "I was a relationship person my whole life. My husband died right before my 50th birthday. I knew that by 60 I'd be married. I just knew. I'm a relationship person."
Sam: "I think we're both lucky. We both acknowledge that side of our lives is important. You don't minimize it. We share all sorts of things, quirks of our former spouses. Sari finally sees, in my daughter, a lot of what my wife was like."